Wow, thank you all so much for the advice! It seems so silly in a way, it is only 3 days. I'm a stay at home mom and SO involved with the kids, and when my oldest talks about leaving for college, he makes it sound like I'll never see him again! (And yep, I'll be one of those sobbing moms at graduation). Oh, this parenting is tough, isn't it? And yes, my DH doesn't have a bit of "daddy guilt!" That's so funny, men and women are so different that way! Thanks again, I think I'll go plan that weekend now..