Is anyone here going through or recently been divorced? I was blindsided a few months ago and next month will be final. My two little ones DS age 12 and DD age 9 seem to be managing the transition well.

Anyone looking at my post history will see quite a gap. My soon to be ex really got on me about my obsession and actually called me creepy for spending so much time planning our vacation and reading and interacting here. I've come back and wish I hadn't been gone so long.

Just wondering if anyone used any "magic" to get them through the tough times.