I can't seem to decide a few of our meals.....so I would like some feedback as to what you all think....pros/cons (are there cons at disney???)

Cali Gril vs Artist Point for dinner

Cape May vs Ohana for breakfast, early ADR around 8 am.

Chef Mickey's vs Crystal Palace for breakfast; early ADR's....around 8 am again.

We are a party of four.....two adults and two boys ages 3 and 9. My 3 year old cannot have any meat, dairy, or soy, so he is quite a challenge to feed at times when on vaca, but if all else fails he will eat fruit and be a happy camper. We have been to WDW before and the chef's have been wonderful in helping us feed him. The ONLY place I will say that I had an issue was as Tusker House in the AK, but I pretty much knew what he could eat there, I just needed to know if things were cooked in water or stock and we were good.