Quote Originally Posted by BrerGnat View Post
So, I guess we're back to square one. She has been pretty indecisive, but we are going to talk to her this weekend and flat out ask her if she would like to live with us, because if so, we need to amend our home search a.s.a.p.

I understand that this is a huge change for her and kind of expect the flip flopping, but we will try and straighten it out when we speak to her this weekend.
And, I'm sure just as you are having doubts and concerns, she is having similar doubts and concerns. I would definitely take the opening conversation as the opportunity to establish what you consider to be ground rules and ask her for her concerns and if she has any ground rules too that you guys need to consider before making final decisions.

Best of luck on your decision.