As most of you know we just got back from a trip to DL. My husband has an Aunt and cousin that lives close so we always spend a couple of days with them. This was our 4th visit in 6yrs. last two times we went to the beach, this time we went to the mountains. We also took lunch to their house one afternoon. We rent a van and they drive one day and then pay a cab 50 dollars to go their house. We also invited them to DL one day and we would pay for tickets. Then the rest of the vacation we did what we had planned without them. I get the feeling that his aunt is annoyed we didn't spend more time with them. I love them but also want to do my stuff too. I know I didn't do anything wrong but can't help feeling guilty. Any advice?