My comment is also that the biggest issue (in my opinion) is the on-line gaming. We do not subscribe to X-Box Live, and my DS14 understands that, and why. He does not argue the point. My friends here at work are 30ish year old guys, who play COD on line, and they warned me "Do NOT let him play on line". They tell me the way that the gamers talk to one another is jaw droppingly awful. I trust their judgement, and continue to disallow the on line stuff. My husband is not a big gamer, so he's not into the stuff ... and this also helps in setting limits.