Waiting for the Next Bus - Okay or Not?

[Bean Bunny]

Is it considered wrong or rude to step aside and let other people board a full bus that is standing room only so that we can get a seat on the next bus?

Back in 2005, we tried to wait for the next bus one night, and the driver got very snippy with us about it, so we ended up boarding. I was pregnant at the time, which is why we tried to get a seat. Last year, we had our DS2 and, yup you guessed it, I was expecting again, and we decided to just board a standing-room only bus (rather than get yelled at again) and that was a nightmare! I had one hand on a pole while balancing myself and my squirmy DS (who only wanted Mommy to hold him). I finally just gave up and sat on the floor!

On one hand, if everybody all of a sudden refused to stand, it would obviously create problems, but on the other, sometimes it just seems safer to wait for another bus. For years, I've always cringed at seeing families struggling to balance children and strollers and diaper bags and whatever else while standing on a crowded bus and now I am one of those families! I do not expect anyone to give up their seat on the bus (though it is always nice to have that happen, I do not expect it), so that leaves us with this crossroad: to stand or wait!

This isn't about letting pregnant women or families with children get the seats first, I'm not trying to start that debate. I wouldn't want to do anything that is considered wrong, and I know with the amount of people at WDW, crowded buses are inevitable and a fact of life. I have seen people wait for the next bus before, but after that one driver snipped at us, I've been wary of it, which is why I wanted to bring this up here to finally get a right or wrong answer.

What do you think???

[Tinkerfreak]

We wait for the next bus alot of times and have never had a bus driver act upset with us. We just step aside and if they keep the door open we just wave them on. We would rather wait a few more minutes and get a seat then have to stand and worry about someone falling. My husband always stands if there are any older people, younger people or females standing. He is just a gentelman.

[DVC2004]

No I wouldn't consider that rude at all. Recently I travelled for business and we had to rely on the hotel shuttle to take us everywhere. I was acutally forced to sit on the floor next to the driver one evening because the shuttle was packed beyond capacity and there was only 1 shuttle (not able to wait for another one). So I would have definitely waited for the next one had there been more than one. Of course, no young men in the groups offered to sit there in my place either.

[Imagineer1981]

I don't think its rude, especially considering if you stop in the bus line for 2 seconds to tie your shoe you'll get passed by 30 people anyways

[MNNHFLTX]

We asked to wait for the next bus on at least a couple of occasions and never had a problem. If anything, the people behind us were happy to at least get on the bus and didn't seem to mind standing.

[#1donaldfan]

NOPE !! not rude.....don't know why a bus driver would have been that way, what's it to them if you decide to wait for another ride....??? my luck the next bus would arrive fully loaded anyway, so I'm getting on the first one avail, but that's just me......

[DisneyFr33k]

My DH is a true southern gent and unless the bus is empty, is he offering his seat to someone else. It is a shame someone didn't offer you their seat when you were pregnant and holding a small child.

[SBETigg]

I can't imagine why it would be a problem to wait-- unless there wasn't going to be another bus. If they had to arrange for more buses, thus go to extra expense, to accommodate more people due to guests not taking advantage of the standing room, it might become a problem. But if there were plenty of people lined up to require another bus anyway, and plenty of people willing to get on board ahead of you even if it meant standing, I can't imagine what was wrong with your driver.

I try to just keep things in perspective. I think this was one snippy bus driver and not that what you did was rude or wrong, and I wouldn't let it influence my decision to wait for a seat instead of standing if that's what I wanted at the time. You shouldn't be forced to feel unsafe just to accommodate a bus driver.

[prttynpnk]

I think it's your perogative to travel as you choose. After a day in the parks the last thing I want is to be standing on top of strangers trying not to fall on anyones child/bags/stroller/grandpa!
I am also slightly horrified that people watched a pregnant woman juggle a toddler- obviously my husband wasn't on that bus- he would have given you his seat and shamed the others around us!

[jillluvsdisney]

Why would that be rude? No is forcing the people behind you to get on a SRO bus. If the next guests don't want it, somewhere down the line someone will want to get on. Don't let the driver's "snippiness" factor into your decision.

[huzzah4]

I would have shamed them until they cried.

[Bean Bunny]

Thank you all so much for your responses! I don't know why that particular driver decided to be so grumpy about it, but he did, and now at least I know he was the exception. Ever since that time, I just assumed we'd better get on whatever bus is sitting there to avoid conflict, but next time we will definitely feel better opting to wait for a seat on the next bus, especially with our kids in tow! Wow, what a relief!

It is a shame someone didn't offer you their seat when you were pregnant and holding a small child.

I am also slightly horrified that people watched a pregnant woman juggle a toddler- obviously my husband wasn't on that bus- he would have given you his seat and shamed the others around us!

On a side note, I was mildly amused that night by an offer from a woman on the bus sitting in her scooter nearby; she offered to hold my son for me!!! Not really an option we(or my son, for that matter) would have been comfortable with, but it was a sweet thought for her to try to help.

And on an added note, thank you all for your support about expecting mommies who have to stand, but I only added that to describe my situations (which just happened to be the case both those times) not the reason I asked this question. My intent was the question in general about the buses, not just for expecting mommies. But, it is comforting to see how many good people there are out there anyways!

[ransam]

if you feel like others may be upset w/ you...then have your husband say he "forgot" something right before you board....let the others go on as your husband goes to get what he "forgot"....

[MississippiDisneyFreak]

I don't think its rude and we've done this before ourselves...I can't believe nobody offered a seat to a pregnant woman...my son is 15 years old and several times our last trip he gave up his seat for older ladies without me having to ask him to do it....

[Granny Jill A]

Wow - getting yelled at by the driver for NOT wanting to board a bus? Not fun.

We have often waited for the next bus rather than be squeezed into a full one. We just tell people behind us to go ahead, and when the bus is really, really full, we are first in line for the next empty bus.

Works for us, and the driver has NEVER said a word.

[Daisy'sMom]

If the driver had yelled at me, I would have marched over to guest relations and made a stink.
Wait for the next bus. It's your right!

[CleveRocks]

We asked to wait for the next bus on at least a couple of occasions and never had a problem. If anything, the people behind us were happy to at least get on the bus and didn't seem to mind standing.

Why would that be rude? No is forcing the people behind you to get on a SRO bus. If the next guests don't want it, somewhere down the line someone will want to get on. Don't let the driver's "snippiness" factor into your decision.

My thoughts exactly.

[Disney Doll]

I see people opting to wait for the next bus all the time and I've never seen a bus driver give it a thought. If anything the people next in line are always very appreciative to get a spot on a full bus. If you'd rather wait for a seat then feel free. I think you just found a grumpy bus driver that one time.

[Tigerinvestigator]

Nope not rude. Actually it is a safety concern if you are pregnant. Wonder what that driver would have thought if you had been slammed against a seat or fallen and started talking lawsuits.

[joelkfla]

Not a problem at all.

Just please step out of the way to allow guests behind you to board. Either scrunch back against the railing, or step forward out of the queue.