REALLY "PRE" Trip Report

[reneeandmark]

Ok.. so here it is. We have them ALL fooled. They have no idea. Not even a single clue... What??? You ask?? We are taking them to DISNEY for a VERY magical celebration....but more of that later. First, let me introduce the cast...
There are 2 families involved.. mine and my sisters.
MY FAMILY:

Me - 44 - MOM - Planner - Contact person - and GUARDIAN OF ALL THINGS SECRET - (currently home for 8 - 12 weeks from teaching due to Spinal Fusion so I have PLENTY of time to plan)

My DH - 44 Driver and payor of the bills (hee hee)

My DD - 12 (going on 20 - she is 5'9" tall already) - wrapper of the finger of the father

My DS - 10 - secretly holds my heart in his hand

**A little background on how special they are**
We tried for 9 years to have kids and had pretty much given up when we saw an ad for foster parenting. After much prayer and months of paperwork,etc. we were approved in 2001 to foster and were given children. At the time they were 2 and 3. I knew as soon as I saw them that they were MINE. We adopted Laney and Hayes in 2002.

My Sister's Family

My Sister - 41 (yes, she is the younger - but I am much better looking - PLEASE don't tell her)

My Sister's DH - 49 - the OLD MAN of the group and driver for their family

My Sister's DD - 11 our "Asian equation"

My Sister's DD - 5 Our Sunshine

My Sister's DD - 2 Our Smiley

**A Little Background on them**
My sister was also unable to have a child naturally, so she and her hubby started the proceedings for an overseas adoption. The price was -WOW- so we all chipped in in whatever we could.. we had yard sales, car washes, made ornaments and crafts and sold them. When I say we, I mean we.. our neighbors helped, the people we worked with helped... it TRULY takes a village. They welcomed Sara in 2000. Most recently, they have been fostering two sweet baby girls.

So, why are we going to DISNEY?????
We went in 2003 to celebrate the adoptions of Laney and Hayes and Sara, so we thought it only fitting to go again with the two new babies. I can't post their names yet, as they are not legally adopted, but suffice it to say they ARE sunshine and smiley. Their adoption will be final VERY soon (the two newest additions).... and no one knows but us. We are going to celebrate by going to Disney. We have been planning hard. Our kids think we are going to Charleston to see my best friend (and with their noses buried in their games and videos they will not know any differently). My sis has told her kids they are going to Savannah. Our plan is to meet up on Friday night, November 6th in Jacksonville, Fl and ACCIDENTLY run into them at a restaurant. I can hardly wait to see their faces. They all love each other so much and will be sooooo surprised.

We have plans to eat out that include the following:
Ohanas
1900 Park Fare
Chef Mickey
Coral Reef
Le Cellier
50's Prime Time

I look forward to springing this on them and seeing their reaction.

Good idea?? Bad idea?? Any ideas on things to do???

[another tink]

Looking forward to your trip report. I like your style.

[ibelieveindisneymagic]

Wow! I can't wait to hear about the kids reactions - what a super surprise!

What lucky kids they are to have found their family with you

[Mickeydream]

Have a wonderful trip. What a great reason to celebrate..actually two of them, Sunshine and Smiley.

I look forward to hearing the reaction when the kids realize the surprise. Enjoy!

[Dsnygirl]

What a wonderful occassion to celebrate, and I can't think of a better way! Can't wait to hear all about it, their faces when it finally dawns on them what is happening... kudos to you for doing all this for everyone, and for welcoming these dear children into your lives. I hope you guys have a WONDERFUL (and magical) vacation!!

[mouseketeer mom]

I loved reading this pre trip report..theres a whole lotta love in it and you can just feel it! I wish you just the most wonderful time together!

[tys_mommy]

Can't wait to read about your trip.



BTW, we adopted our first and only 2 foster placements (sibling group) 2 months ago (after having them in our lives for 18 months). I can't imagine our lives without them.

[tmosier]

I love your sense of humor! Did I miss when you are taking this surprise trip?

[biodtl]

How wonderful! I can't wait to read more.

[DizNee143]

how absolutely wonderful!!
i hope you and your sisters family have a great time!!!

[wildernesslady]

Have a great time. You and your family are very special for what you are doing. I can't wait to hear their reactions.

[T-Belle]

It sounds like you have such a beautiful family and I look forward to reading all about it!

[faline]

What a great, loving family you have! This ought to be a wonderful trip! Can't wait to hear all the details!

[reneeandmark]

Well, suffice it to say my PAIN meds are working. NO WHERE in my PRE trip report did I mention WHEN we would be going. MEDS can be a wonderful thing... LOL...

We are going to be leaving from home on November 6th and returning home the 14th. We know this is Veterans week and that MAY have some influence on the crowd, but with me being out of work for 8 or so weeks already, we knew this would be best for the kids I teach. I really hate being away from them, but know that I need to take care of ME before I can teach them. This way, I will only miss 2 actual instructional days. The other days we have that week are workdays.

One side note...
Have ya'll seen that cute commercial where they are in the stuffy restaurant and the dad turns his menu over and there is the invite from DISNEY?? and all the balloons go off and "firepops"? (And yes, I know they are called fireWORKS, but Hayes called them firepops when he was little and I just can't stop them now). Anyway... that commercial is on ALLLL the time during the day and when the kids get home from school. I have made a HUGE deal of saying EVERYTIME it comes on that I want to go to DISNEY again this year. The kids have made of running joke of saying things like...

Ok, Mom, we KNOW you want to go.. you don't have to say it....
or things like.. we CAN'T afford Disney AGAIN this year, Mom....

Everytime they do, I am SOOOO smiling inside... I want to tell them SOOO bad, but I know that surprise that night we "RUN INTO" my sister and her family will be worth all the pent up happiness.

My sister and I have had the best time buying their "MICKEY SURPRISES". We hang a "special bag" on the door everynight, go to sleep and SOMEHOW they are full the next morning. IMAGINE THAT!!!! Even my 12 year old has NO idea... I LOVE that innocence!

[AmandaChan]

You guys sound like such fun parents!!! I can't wait to take my own children someday. We just found out we're pregnant not too long ago and I'm already planning its first trip.


have fun and can't wait to read your report!

[Tigerinvestigator]

We too will be celebrating adoptions on our next trip in December. We can't wait.

[vizsla]

Have a great time and a safe trip.

[Disneymom4ever]

Sounds like a wonderful trip you have planned! And many special reasons for going as well. I can't wait to read all about it!

[reneeandmark]

I think we have figured out how we are going to "surprise" them with the news. We are leaving our house around noon and my sister about the same time. We will be about 30 minutes ahead of her. When we reach Savanna, GA, we are going to stop for dinner. We will go in first and get a table (of course with extra seats for us to spread out) and they will follow shortly after.We are just going to let the kids "run into each other" as if nothing was going on. They think we are going to see friends in SC and with their noses buried in their mp3s and videos they will know no difference. We are going to take disney dollars into the restaurant for the waitress to give them "since they behaved so well". Our hope is that the restaurant will be in on this with us and a few of the staff will come out (kind of like a birthday thing) and surprise them with the news. What do you think? Will they fall for it?

[KylesMom]

What a wonderful way to celebrate for your whole family. I gotta tell you, the surprise would be absolutely killing me about now!

Our hope is that the restaurant will be in on this with us and a few of the staff will come out (kind of like a birthday thing) and surprise them with the news. What do you think? Will they fall for it?

You know, I'd let the restaurant be "in on it", but I think YOU should be the one to let them know where they're going!

BTW, I hope all is going well with your healing process!