Be careful when contemplating getting the dining plan. It rarely saves you money unless you plan on having all your meals at buffets and character meals, or there are several children under 10 in your party. You need to seriously crunch the numbers, taking into account how long you'll be there and the eating habits of the folks in your party.

Most people actually spend more on food when they purchase the dining plan than they would if they just paid out of pocket for what they want.

Disney hypes and promotes the Dining Plans heavily. Not because they are a good deal for the guest. The Dining Plans are a huge moneymaker for Disney.

As far as you getting the alcoholic drink from your not 21 year old daughter, no. That's not allowed. You can probably get away with it at a counter service place - they'll let an adult (over 21) pick up 2 alcoholic drinks when ordering 2 or more meals. Table service, they will card everyone who orders a drink.

Steve