There is any option you can choose for each person in your friends & family list, that determines is they can see ALL your plans or only the ones that you share. It had to be set for each person. From the F&F list, click on their icon. The next screen will have the option to share "All my plans " or "Only plans we share". Of you choose the latter, they will only see the ADRs and FPs that you have together. They won't see the rest of your stuff.

Steve