Me too. Never needed the extra. We do wash and dry them ourselves throughout our week, since I am doing regular laundry anyway.
And we take our trash and recycling to the "trash room" every morning when we leave the villa. It's usually on the way anyway. No problems there.
We never rely on the toiletries as a rule. We bring our own- everyone in my family is picky and uses their own brands. I guess we use the bar soap, but one bar is usually fine for our stay.
And I put all of our dishes and glasses (if used) in the dishwasher in the morning and turn it on as we leave. That's not a big deal either.
Somehow, these things I don't enjoy doing at home seem like like such a luxury and so much fun when I am doing it in a DVC Villa!!