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conorsmom2000
07-04-2008, 06:20 AM
As I posted before, I was laid off from my job at the end of May. I had been working as a staffing specialist (basically an Admin job) and was lucky enough to work 4 flexible hours a day, from home. So, with Mike losing his job in 3 weeks, I've been frantically searching for a job. Part time seems impossible to find, so I've been considering full time, though I'm not sure what I'd do with Conor, being president of the PA, etc. I'd been blessed to have the freedom, really, to fit work around all these things. So, while losing my job has been a huge blow to me, it's also made me realize that any new job is going to mean big life changes for me.

One job I had applied for was a Secretary spot in the Special Services department of our school district. I was up against a few friends, who are also very active in the district, so I didn't really expect to get it (and in the end, none of us did - they hired from outside the district).

But, a few weeks later, 4 special education Paraprofessional (Classroom Aide) spots became available and I was offered one of them today.

I guess I'm unsure because this is so unlike anything I've ever done. I'm not even fully sure what the job entails - I have to meet with the Director on Monday to go over everything with him, though the job is definitely mine if I want it. I have over 16 years of Admin experience, mostly working in HR and staffing, and most of that working for a large software Company, so, this is a totally different type of job for me. On the plus side, I'd be on the exact same schedule as Conor - my hours would be his exact school hours and I'd have all his vacations off (and summer!) On the negative, the pay is very low - lower than what I made part time, though, not much lower considering this is a 10 month job vs 12 month. I think Mike wanted me to work full time to help cover us while he's out of work, but the bottom line is that I haven't found anything yet, and it's hard to beat a job where I wouldn't be looking for a babysitter every time school was closed. I would like to think that this could eventually lead to an office job, but I don't know if that's the case, or even how things work within the district.

I guess what concerns me as well is my commitment to the PA. With this job, I wouldn't be able to be onsite for any of our school events, which makes me a little sad, as I loved doing that stuff. But, at least I'd be working in town and able to oversee things before and after school, and on my lunch hour - with another job, I might not be so lucky. For example, one job I was up for was full time - it was a great job, double my salary, which would have been wonderful for us, but it was a new branch office, so it would be crazy long hours, with a 30 minute commute each way. With the school job, the longest my commute could possibly be is a mile and a half!

At the moment, I don't know which school in our district I'd be at - we have 5 elementary schools, 1 middle school and a high school. I doubt I'd be so lucky as to end up at Conor's school. And I understand that, but I guess that makes me nervous - each school can be very "cliquey" and I'm afraid that I'll feel like an outsider at another school (I sound like a little kid writing that! :D )

Bottom line is that it's the best offer I've had, but not working on a computer/in an office makes me feel totally out of my element, so I guess I'm nervous. Any thoughts/advice to help me sort through this? :blush:

daparish
07-04-2008, 08:03 AM
That's a tough one. I think I would give it a try. Starting a new job is never easy and starting a new job out of your element is especially difficult. You mentioned the pay is low but if you factored in what it would cost if you were at a different job and had to make arrangements for a baby sitter for Connor maybe it would all even out. I am a horrible one to give job advice. I worked 60 hours last week and totally detest my boss. I have never, ever felt this way about another co-worker much less my boss. I stick it out because I can't go anywhere else and make what I am making and I know that I need to be thankful for my job when so many others are trying to find work. Lots of :pixie: as you make your decision.

MaryPoppinsFan
07-04-2008, 10:22 AM
I have been laid off since January with no job in sight. I ended up volunteering at our preschool 2 mornings a week (my kids were in
3rd ad 7th grade). I LOVED IT!! the kids were wonderful and it was such a great experience. I have been in telecom for 27yers so quite a switch. this lead to 2 months in our daycare, which lead to a baby-sitting job for the summer. so it all works out. I was president of our PTL at the time so I loved being inteh building.
The pay is less but the rewards can be so much more. :mickey: You might find a new career for yourself

smatterchu
07-04-2008, 10:24 AM
I agree - factoring in the commute (gas prices) and possible childcare (especially during holidays/summers/breaks), you might come out ahead... I would also figure in different wardrobe, lunch costs, other costs, etc...

My suggestion would also be to Google your type of job and see if you can find any message boards of similar folks. You might wind up talking with the classroom teachers, but maybe they could at least give you an idea of what you are in for.

As much as anything, you need to figure out the best questions to have to ask next week when you meet. Knowing what to ask will help you be more prepared and let you know what to expect if you did take the job.

Certainly, they are not going to lay out any of the negative aspects, and all jobs have them.

One question might be why they suddenly had so many of these openings... And you might even say - my background is really in xxxx -- in a year, how difficult would it be to transition to an opening in administration if my qualifications matched...

Good luck -- better to take a sure thing now and then make changes later. I'm sure you'll do great!!

crazypoohbear
07-04-2008, 10:55 AM
I say go for it. Most school systems offer a great benefit plan.
Do you get health/dental?
Do you get a good retirement plan?
Do you get sick time/PTO?
When figuring in the "cost" of taking the job you need to consider that aspect of the job as well.
What would you have to pay a babysitter/daycare
Gas
Wear and tear on your car
What kind of benefits would the other company have to offer. Most companies are making employees pay much of their own health insurance now. My DH is paying about 700. per month OOP!
The most important thing you need to remember is Conor. You will be there for him.

As for not knowing much about the aide job.... You really do. you have shared with us some of Conors issues and you would be a great fit. you will be in a classroom with other children that have the same or similar issues/conditions as Conor and who better to assist them but a loving mom who wants them all to succeed! You are selling yourself short. you have helped your son over the years and you will be able to help these other children as well.

smatterchu
07-04-2008, 11:05 AM
I have been laid off since January with no job in sight. I ended up volunteering at our preschool 2 mornings a week (my kids were in
3rd ad 7th grade). I LOVED IT!! the kids were wonderful and it was such a great experience. I have been in telecom for 27yers so quite a switch. this lead to 2 months in our daycare, which lead to a baby-sitting job for the summer. so it all works out. I was president of our PTL at the time so I loved being inteh building.
The pay is less but the rewards can be so much more. :mickey: You might find a new career for yourself

Good points....

My 'background' is a Technical Writer and Corporate Trainer, but I'm having soooooo much fun working at Disney as a Photographer. I love it! - And I'm so thankful for the opportunity to shift gears and do something a little outside of my experience! I might transition to something closer to my original background someday, but I'm loving the guest interaction - you can't put a pricetag on that. My guess is you'll feel similarly at your new work! :cloud9:

smatterchu
07-04-2008, 11:06 AM
As for not knowing much about the aide job.... You really do. you have shared with us some of Conors issues and you would be a great fit. you will be in a classroom with other children that have the same or similar issues/conditions as Conor and who better to assist them but a loving mom who wants them all to succeed! You are selling yourself short. you have helped your son over the years and you will be able to help these other children as well.

Also good points!! :thumbsup:

Dakota Rose
07-04-2008, 11:10 AM
I don't have any advice for you, but I wanted to say good luck in making this decision. I'll be thinking of and praying for you as you weigh your options. Hang in there! You're smart; you'll make the right decision.

mrsgaribaldi
07-04-2008, 02:15 PM
Make a list of the pros and cons. Low pay is better than no pay.;)Whatever you decide, if it's not working out you can always leave and start again. Good luck :pixie::pixie::pixie:

conorsmom2000
07-07-2008, 05:16 PM
Thanks everyone! :mickey: I met with the Director of Special Services today, though, it wasn't what I expected. Basically he said there were 4 openings for aides - one at the HS, one at the MS, one at an Elementary school (not Conor's) and one that is split between 2 elementary schools (one of them being Conor's). So, he basically gave me my choice of which one and I wanted (and hopefully that doesn't change between now and September!) I took the one that is split between the two schools, since one of them is Con's - though I'll only be there half a day, just knowing all the teachers and staff there already makes me feel more comfortable. But, he didn't really go into what will be required of me! I'm happy with the decision about taking it - even the Director said today that this how many Admins started in the district so it does give you that foot in the door. While the pay is low, the bottom line is that never having to worry about a babysitter for Conor is wonderful. So, we won't be living on easy street any time soon - what else is new? :D When seriously weighing the pro's and con's, the pro's definitely came out ahead! And though it will be rough this summer with no paychecks coming in for either Mike or myself, just know the stress of looking for a job is over is a huge relief! So, I'm getting kind of excited now! :mickey: :thumbsup:

Thanks again!

MauiMouse
07-07-2008, 06:27 PM
Jen, glad to hear that you can at least be at Conor's school for part of the day. I'm sure it's a relief not having to worry about that part of this whole change.

I hope that Mike will be able to find something soon as well.

You guys are great people and something will turn up! :thumbsup:

crazypoohbear
07-07-2008, 08:17 PM
Congrats and good luck in the job in Sept.
As for no paychecks for the summer. could one of you get a job in retail just for the summer? IT would be better than nothing.

d_m_n_n
07-07-2008, 08:57 PM
Hooray for you, Jen!!! Even if you are only at Connor's school part-time that will be so convenient. :)

offwego
07-08-2008, 10:55 AM
Sounds like a good choice from a commute and child care perspective.

Hopefully Mike will find something as well soon.

princessgirls
07-09-2008, 07:40 PM
I think it sounds like a homerun, espessially if you are able to get into the mighty NJ teachers union.

I have been piecing together work since I had my daughter Morgan in late 2000. Luckily, I have an awesome support of babysitters but it's expensive. I cut my hours to 20 for the summer, but once school starts I'll be back to 30, and finally both of my girls will both be in school full-day! YES!!!! Thankfully for me I work for a very understanding boss.

Julie:mickey:

RedSoxFan
07-09-2008, 07:49 PM
Congrats Jen on the job. And best wishes to Mike that he finds work soon.