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    I will be back in Disney World in a week. The original plan was that it would be me
    and two friends. About two months ago, one of my friends got into a relationship and asked me to add the boyfriend to our dining reservations. I verified that he would be at all of them and then added him. About 3 weeks ago, my friend said they would be able to go for the whole week and asked me to send him a copy of the plans so that they could decide which days to go, which I did. I didn't hear back from them, so last Tuesday night, I texted him. He said they would talk about it and would let me know on Wednesday. Thursday, I texted him again and he said they would get back to me on Friday. Friday night, I still hadn't heard from him, so I just cancelled the restaurants that I had booked at his request. I haven't heard from him still, so I'm dropping the other reservations down to just two. I know I have up until 24 hours to cancel in order to not get charged, but I want everything in order before I leave.
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    You would not be charged for arriving with a smaller party, just for a no show. I would probably reach out to my friend though (rather than him) before I started cancelling them off your ressie. Seems like you make be bothered by him suddenly joining you?
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    I think you are fine Might keep 1 or 2, just in case he decides they are coming to it. Simplify the rest. If he and your friend are into it enough to provide feedback in a timely matter, they get what they get. I'm sure they'll be fine with it, since they know they haven't gotten back. He is probably find with whatever.
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    Thanks guys.
    Be still and know that I am God - Psalm 46:10

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    Quote Originally Posted by texas211 View Post
    I think you are fine Might keep 1 or 2, just in case he decides they are coming to it. Simplify the rest. If he and your friend are into it enough to provide feedback in a timely matter, they get what they get. I'm sure they'll be fine with it, since they know they haven't gotten back. He is probably find with whatever.
    Man, I must have been high on paint fumes when I typed that.. Wait, I was. Spray painting/plastidipping in the garage.. Maybe next time I'll crack the door a bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by texas211 View Post
    Man, I must have been high on paint fumes when I typed that.. Wait, I was. Spray painting/plastidipping in the garage.. Maybe next time I'll crack the door a bit.
    Do you need an ER nurse to come and treat you?
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    HA, maybe. I wore my mask last night. So I'm better.

    All the ER nurses I know are headed to WDW.
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    Quote Originally Posted by texas211 View Post
    HA, maybe. I wore my mask last night. So I'm better.

    All the ER nurses I know are headed to WDW.
    I need my flag carrier to be in top shape for our group of 11.



    We flock to Disney World, because we need a fantasy world to save us from reality. On an interesting note, teachers and nurses do the most travelling of any profession.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cinderelley View Post
    I need my flag carrier to be in top shape for our group of 11.



    We flock to Disney World, because we need a fantasy world to save us from reality. On an interesting note, teachers and nurses do the most travelling of any profession.
    You wouldn't like me. I'd rfid and blue tooth everyone. GPS tags too. Emergency plans, meeting plans, multiple maps in water proof sheets for the plans.. This is a for real mission folks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by texas211 View Post
    You wouldn't like me. I'd rfid and blue tooth everyone. GPS tags too. Emergency plans, meeting plans, multiple maps in water proof sheets for the plans.. This is a for real mission folks.
    A mission? Hmmm, what makes you think we wouldn't enjoy this? *puts on Black Widow outfit*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cinderelley View Post
    A mission? Hmmm, what makes you think we wouldn't enjoy this? *puts on Black Widow outfit*
    Careful! That catsuit might be quite hot and uncomfortable in the FL heat!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by PopPhan View Post
    Careful! That catsuit might be quite hot and uncomfortable in the FL heat!!!!
    I'm from Phoenix. Nothing is too hot and uncomfortable. :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by PopPhan View Post
    Careful! That catsuit might be quite hot and uncomfortable in the FL heat!!!!
    Yeah, thats a heatstroke waiting to happen. After being sweaty, need a come along to get that off.

    Why are superhero outfits rubber? I'm going w/ Iron Man suit.. AC.
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