I can address your husband's fears about the "creepiness" aspect... my husband was VERY unsure about all the people I was meeting on here when I first joined, and when I asked him to accompany me to I'cot's 10th anniv party, he said okay... but was really skeptical about who we would meet and what it would be like. He is a very "black and white" kind of guy, not into internet chatting or FB or much of anything like that.

Well, let me tell you... that changed the moment we arrived and went to our first meet at the Tambu Lounge at the Poly. He really enjoyed everyone we met, had a GREAT time and thought it was one of the best groups of folks he's met!! He even joined I'cot when we got home, although he's never on here anymore... He still asks how people are and enjoys my stories, and has encouraged me to attend this year, totally on my own!! (He'd love to come, but we have no one to stay with our girls... )

So -- keep on working on him, and I hope to hear that you'll be joining us!!