So we are contemplating a trip to DLR. But the only way I can talk my wife into another Disney vacation is to only spend half the time doing Disney stuff. So I was considering a 9 day trip to California and spending 4 of those days in Disney. Is that enough time? I know for us in Disney World we like to spend 2 days in each park. So I figured 2 days per park in DL.

Should I stay at Paradise Pier? Or I see there are hotels right across the street.

I have no idea about the layout there so I don't know what driving time from an off resort hotel would be.

What else other than the 2 parks is there to do on Disney property?

What else is there to do around Anaheim? Should I rent a Car and drive to another part of California?

Any suggestions for what airport to use, which airline would be cheapest?

Thanks for your help in advance. Everyone was so helpful while I planned my last DW vacation.