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DisneyDog
04-17-2007, 11:43 AM
Hi folks, I'm quite sad today. My mom called me last night at 9:45 to tell me that my grandmother was found in her apartment, not breathing. She passed away some time between 4pm and 9pm yesterday.

My mom had been trying to call her, and she wasn't answering the phone, so she called the security guard who called the police and the paramedics. My mom usually called my grandmother at 4pm and 9pm to check up on her, and she did speak with her at 4pm. Little did she know that would be the last time she'd ever speak with her mom.

My DS4 and I last spoke with her on Sunday.

I haven't told my little boy yet. He's still reeling from having lost his doggie back in December. I'm not sure how I'm going to get through telling him yet more sad news.:(

CleveSJM
04-17-2007, 11:49 AM
Condolences to you and your family at this time of loss.

Christine
04-17-2007, 11:55 AM
I am so sorry for your loss :(

Mickey'sGirl
04-17-2007, 12:09 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Give your DS an extra :hug: today.

Strmchsr
04-17-2007, 12:16 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. Lots of prayers and :pixie: as you go through the grieving and help your children do the same.

jenperich
04-17-2007, 12:27 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember when my grandmother died, it was the saddest time for me in my whole life. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.

Jeri Lynn
04-17-2007, 12:38 PM
I am very sorry for your loss.:(

goofiecrazy
04-17-2007, 12:44 PM
I am so sorry for your loss of your grandmom.I still have one grandparent left my Nan and when that time comes for her to leave i will be crazy with pain since we are so close and talk a couple of times a week and see her.

faline
04-17-2007, 01:00 PM
I'm so sorry for the loss you and your family have experienced.

ChipnDaleGal
04-17-2007, 01:01 PM
I am so very sorry for you loss. :hug: it is never easy to get or give that kind of news. Good luck with your little boy. :pixie: for all of you.

sleepingbooty
04-17-2007, 01:02 PM
Thats very sad news, Disneydog. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs to your son :hug:

Jeremy
04-17-2007, 01:38 PM
I am sorry for your loss.:(

RedSoxFan
04-17-2007, 03:15 PM
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother. It is a hard thing to deal with. DH's grandmother died a couple of weeks ago.

mrsgaribaldi
04-17-2007, 06:46 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Here's some :pixie: :pixie: :pixie: for all of you.

Bethis26fan
04-17-2007, 06:56 PM
I am sorry for your loss. It's so hard to loose grandparents.

Jeff
04-17-2007, 07:11 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.:(

Bethanymouse
04-17-2007, 10:32 PM
I feel your pain. My grandmother is very ill right now. It is not easy to lose someone you love and it is even harder to tell little ones about it. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.

vizsla
04-18-2007, 06:35 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers and pixie dust on the way.

disneydeb
04-18-2007, 07:22 AM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. :hug:

Dsnygirl
04-18-2007, 07:36 AM
I am so sorry to hear that your Grandmother passed away... sending thoughts and prayers your way during this really tough time. Sending some for your little DS, too. We're thinking of you guys...

Carol
04-18-2007, 08:17 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jill. :(

MissStyles
04-18-2007, 08:45 AM
:pixie: for you and your family during this difficult time.

Goofy Forever
04-18-2007, 11:59 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

DVC2004
04-18-2007, 12:39 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :( You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. And especially your little one.

merlinmagic4
04-22-2007, 08:57 PM
I'm really sorry about your grandmother :(

Auntie
04-23-2007, 12:37 AM
I'm sorry for your loss..you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

MsMin
04-23-2007, 02:15 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Sending prayers and :pixie: to help you all heal.
There are some great books out there that help dying and grieving for little ones. Sometimes it helps to explain things through a story. I know there are some great ones like the story of the butterfly that death is just a transition. I know it hurts that much more when our little ones are in pain. :angel: Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

mtown71
04-23-2007, 12:17 PM
So sorry to hear about your loss! Prayers are heading your way. May God grant you peace & comfort!

DisneyDog
04-23-2007, 02:11 PM
Thank you for your kind thoughts, everyone. The funeral was graveside, and quite simple, but comforting. We are Jewish, and would normally sit shiva, but my mom didn't want to do that. We simply got together with some relatives afterward and she took us all out to lunch so we could spend time together. Some of those folks I haven't seen in 10 years, since my grandfather's funeral.

My DS took it pretty well. He didn't bring it up for a few days, then he decided to start telling everyone that his "Nanny went to heaven and she's with our dog, Sneakers."

I'm still getting used to the fact that she won't be calling us anymore. But, life has to get back to normal now:(